Dogs + Kids = Warm, loving companionship --- or chaos?
Well, that's up to you. The benefits of canine friendship can be many.
Kids can learn that responsible care-giving is well worth the effort for the
love and companionship they receive in return. They can also learn a sense
of trust and security that will carry over into their human relationships.
There is, however, a lot you need to know to ensure that your child has the
same fond memories of growing up with Rover as you did.
Building any good relationship takes understanding,
communication and realistic expectations. The relationship between a child
and a dog can be very special, but it needs guidance to become a rewarding
experience with lasting good memories. So teach your child how to get
along with dogs and reap the rewards of all those warm wet kisses and big
hugs. The AKC, experts on purebred dogs since 1884, offers tips on how to
keep everyone in your family safe and happy.
Every child should grow up with a dog. I did.
Does your child want a dog? Ask him or her. Maybe it's
not the right age or time, or the child isn't ready for the
responsibilities of caring for a dog. Maybe your child is too busy with
other activities. Maybe you're the one who really wants the dog.
Regardless, you as the adult, are the individual ultimately responsible
for the dog's health and welfare.
Billy, this is Rover. Rover, Billy. Now what?
What do these two wily creatures need to know about
each other? How to: 1) Behave and 2) Communicate. The
first message: BE GENTLE AND LEARN MUTUAL RESPECT.
Do explain to your child that
since dogs can't talk like we do, they communicate in different ways,
such as facial expressions, body posture, or barking. Your child should
learn to be sensitive to the dog's behavior.
Do demonstrate how to interact
with the dog. Show the child how to pet the dog nicely, to give the dog
some space if it gets anxious, and how not to pull the dog's
tail, or ears, or poke its eye. Carefully explain that a dog is not a toy.
Do make sure your dog has basic
obedience training. The dog needs to know what is expected of it, and you
need to establish a form of communication with your pet. Consulting a
qualified obedience instructor can be helpful.
Do be consistent in all teaching endeavors.
Do supervise all puppy-child
interactions. The adult in the household is the responsible party to be
sure interactions are fun and mutually respected.
Do oversee the dog's care and well-being at all times.
Don't expect any dog to
tolerate ear tugging, tail pulling or the like. Intervene if play gets
rough or out of hand.
Don't force responsibility
on the child that he or she is not ready for. The dog will suffer the
consequences of being neglected, ignored and not properly care for.
AKC Information and Programs
The AKC offers a wide range of educational information and programs about dogs and kids, including:
The Complete Dog Book For Kids,
containing kid-friendly information and pictures of purebred dogs.
How To Find The Right Breed For You and How To Be A Responsible Dog Owner to help parents select and care for a family dog.
Visit the AKC's website at http://www.akc.org,
with information on dog breeds, breed clubs, dog events and more.
AKC Junior Showmanship program for
youths 10-18 years of age. For information call Junior Showmanship at 919-816-3776 or visit http://www.akc.org/events/junior-showmanship